анонимный вопрос

First and foremost, the main thing I’d like to advise: don’t overthink her thoughts. It’s very easy to convince yourself that, for example, she looked at me strangely, she probably doesn’t like me, I might as well go kill myself with a broom. You will have to clarify a lot of things for certain.

Recall all the fragments of your knowledge regarding advertising, marketing, street agitation, negotiation skills, and so on. Consider how the process of seduction is similar to all the above, which techniques from that repertoire you more or less master, and how all this could be applied. This is mainly to get into an analytical mindset and attack the problem from the most unexpected angles.

As a result, you will develop several tactical ideas, for example:
— I’ll add her as a friend, study what she likes, like some of her posts myself, but not everything indiscriminately, and leave a few comments.
— I’ll strike up a conversation with her in some low-stakes situation, for example, walking together to the bus stop; I’ll bring up a topic for conversation that she seems interested in on social media, I’ll ask more than I chatter myself, and be sure to ask open-ended questions; I’ll be the first to say goodbye, making sure to thank her for the interesting conversation, so that she wants to repeat it sometime.
— then, if the opportunity arises, I’ll invite her to a cafe, take a cozy table, and gradually steer the conversation toward a soulful, trusting tone; I’ll touch upon the fact that guys are, of course, cute creatures, but a bit clumsy, and still will never fully understand you, and that it’s great to have female friends; I’ll share memories of my intimacy with a girl, and that I slightly regret the breakup, and sometimes, depending on the mood, I want to get everything back; I’ll try to get some story about her own experience with girls.
— I’ll get some empathogens and, when we gather together at an apartment, we’ll throw a party with substances; or just with cocktails.
— and from there, it’ll just take off!

Then exhale, turn off the analytics, catch a state of light excitement, and go implement your findings.

Of course, everything will go differently than you planned. She might turn out to be against substances, or an Orthodox activist, or eternally busy, or have a jealous boyfriend who starts hitting on you himself, or something else. Any failure is the best reason to have a good laugh at yourself.

One way or another, you will gain a wealth of impressions and life experience, and it doesn’t matter at all where you end up. Maybe you’ll steal her boyfriend. Maybe you’ll start a joint business with her. Maybe she’ll pounce on you herself on the second date and fuck you. Maybe you’ll just become good friends, without transitioning to any sensual experience. Maybe you’ll quickly get bored of it and switch to something else. Any of these outcomes is better than watching and sighing, but doing nothing to fulfill your desire.